How often have you found yourself wanting to open up about what’s weighing on you but held back, fearing once you start, you might not be able to stop?
Perhaps friends or loved ones ask if you’re okay, but even though you appreciate their concern, you aren’t looking for advice. Instead, you want someone who can simply listen—without judgment, interruptions, or quick-fix solutions that often miss the mark. For many of us, it’s disheartening to share something deeply personal, only to receive advice that feels dismissive, leaving us feeling misunderstood and, at times, frustrated.
Imagine a place where you can speak freely, knowing you won’t be met with empty platitudes or unsolicited opinions. Most of us, when looking for a listening ear, turn to therapists, counselors, friends, family, or partners—all valuable resources. However, these relationships often come with expectations of advice or feedback, which isn’t always what we need.
This is where I come in.
As a neutral, unbiased listener, I don’t know the people in your life or carry any preconceptions about you. My role is simple: to listen attentively to whatever you wish to share.
By the way, I am not an AI chatbot. I’m a real person, and I’m really listening.
Tell me your dreams, your fears, the things holding you back, and what drives you forward. I’m here to provide a safe space where you won’t be interrupted, judged, or labeled.
You don’t need to fill me in on your background, history, or personal details—your age, job, gender, orientation, beliefs, or life experiences are all irrelevant to me in this context. My purpose is solely to listen to you as you are, respecting the individuality of your story without the need to weigh in.
Whoever you are, wherever you come from, we are all humans with beating hearts in our chests, and we all deserve to be heard.
What is Deep Listening?
Deep listening is an intentional practice where the listener remains fully present, allowing the speaker to feel seen and understood in a safe, judgment-free space. By quieting the natural urge to respond or advise, the listener maintains a relaxed, peaceful state that promotes open communication. This non-reactive presence fosters a bond of trust, enabling the speaker to express themselves authentically, without the need to self-censor or shape their words to please. Deep listening offers a rare space where the act of listening itself is the gift.
What to Expect During a Listening Session
Each session is an opportunity for you to speak freely about anything on your mind. Whether you want to share a story, express thoughts and emotions, or simply discuss something that’s been occupying your thoughts, I will listen fully, without judgment, interruption, or advice. There’s no commentary, no opinions—just focused, compassionate listening. It’s a simple but powerful experience that many find deeply refreshing.
How Does a Session Work?
Sessions are held live via video call on Zoom. While my camera remains on to provide a reassuring, attentive presence, you’re welcome to keep yours on or off—whatever feels most comfortable to you.
At the beginning of our session, I’ll take a moment to greet you and answer any questions you may have. Then, when you’re ready, I’ll invite you to start speaking. You are free to pause, reflect, or collect your thoughts without any pressure; the session flows at your pace, and I am fully comfortable with silence. Our time together is yours to use as you wish, with as many words—or as few—as you need.
As we near the end of our time, I will let you know. When our session has concluded I will offer my thanks before logging off.
All services are being provided free of charge at this time.
Schedule a
Listening Session
I offer 10-minute sessions. I am on the West Coast. Appointment times are shown in your local time but are based on my availability on the West Coast.
Please Note: I do not accept on-demand or unscheduled sessions. If you need immediate help, here are some resources. Need Help Now? — Listening Bear
I reserve the right to refuse service to anyone.